Here are some Frequently Asked Questions that may help you in your adoption or missing family search!
Provide me with all the information you have and I will give you a consultation at no charge. I may have suggestions for gathering further information before initiating a search.
Most of the search cases require many hours of research time and involve expenses for documents and other resources. I keep this in mind when I set my fees. If I accept your case on a No Find-No fee basis, there is no financial risk to you if not found.
No one can promise you they will find the person you are looking for, but I promise to do my very best for you and to leave no stone unturned.
Some CI programs are provided at no charge, depending on the state. If a free program is available, this is an option you should consider. However, most charge a fee of $300-$600, regardless whether the person is found. If the found person doesn’t respond to the CI, then the CI is prohibited by law from giving you any information. When you hire a search professional, you will still receive a detailed report on that individual.
There are benefits to hiring a search angel. There is no charge and there is usually no harm in going that route. However, be sure to use one who has lots of experience and references. Well-intended volunteers sometimes mishandle the first contact and it could ruin your only chance to communicate with that person you’ve been searching for. Also, there are a very few but dangerous individuals who present themselves as search angels but have other motives. It is important to proceed with caution. If the search angel is unsuccessful, go then to a professional. A search professional is likely to succeed when a search angel fails. In addition, hiring a search professional often reaps quicker results.
We collect all available information from you regarding who you are searching for, either a birth parent or an adopted person, and conduct a search using all resources at our disposal. We may then contact the searched party to verify the relationship and assess their willingness to be contacted by the client, after which we convey all of the information we have collected.
In my experience, most searches conclude on a positive note. Most of the time, the person is pleased to have been found. Occasionally this is not the case, and no communication is desired. This is always disappointing, but sometimes, even in these cases, the person who is found is willing to provide some information through me, such as medical history. When no contact is desired, at least there can often be a sense of closure, and sometimes family members of the individual will be willing to connect.
I will not reinvent, hide, or gloss over information my research has brought to light. I will be truthful and non-judgmental, and will help you come to terms with difficult information.